Got a kitty that likes to lounge on your lap 24/7?
Find out the secret behind the cat behavior that drives some kitties to lay on their people all the time!
We hear all the time how independent cats are. They like their own space and they enjoy spending time by themselves.
Right?
If that’s completely true, why are most cat owners able to commiserate about not being able to lie down without their cat coming over to lie down too?
Contrary to popular belief, cats are not uncaring little beings (these cats prove it!) who are only looking out for themselves.
They do create relationships with their people, and most cats enjoy spending time with the humans in their lives.
There are a few reasons cats like to lie on their humans, and it’s not all about affection.
Cat Behavior Explained: Why Kitty Likes to Lie on You!
1- Although you may not enjoy the extra body heat your cat provides you, he may feel nice and cozy snuggled up against you.
Cats’ normal body temperatures range from 100 to 102 degrees, and while their bodies do a pretty good job of keeping them cool when it’s warm outside, they have a more difficult time staying warm when they are chilly.
You are like a custom-made heated mat for your cat!
2- Cats sleep a lot and go through different sleep cycles while they snooze.
Much of the time they sleep, they are really only dozing so they can leap up at any moment if there is danger.
As you build a trusting bond with your cat and he’s comfortable in his home environment, he may sleep with you more because he trusts that he can let his guard down when he’s with you.
It’s a huge compliment to the relationship you’ve built with him!
3- Okay, I said it’s not ALL about affection, but that’s definitely part of it.
When your cat comes over to lie on you, how do you react?
Do you reach out and scratch her behind the ears or place an arm around her?
If you push her away, this article probably isn’t useful for you since she’s probably already stopped trying to lie on you.
For those cats who do get affection by coming over and lying on their humans, they keep doing it because they know what the result will be.
If you’re not as fond of your cat lying on you while you sleep, consider creating a special bed for him in your room so he can be near you if he chooses but not directly on you.
If you are comfortable with your cat lying on you, now you know why he does it and can continue giving him the love and scratches when he ambles over to settle down for a rest.
We’d love to hear your thoughts about this cat behavior! Do you love when kitty snuggles with you? Share below!
I don’t have a cat, but I love it when my dog sleeps on me. It’s probably for pretty similar reasons 🙂
I really want a cat for that reason. I have been graced by the cat gods many times to have kitties snuggle up to me and curl up on my lap. In my opinion it’s one of the most magical experiences.
My dogs are actually the same way – super snuggly! It is good to know where it comes from.
Yay! This is such an amazing info. Now I know why cats do that!
Cats are so interesting! I didn’t know that their body temperatures ran so high. I like to snuggle with my pets from time to time.
Adorable little kittens! This is very fun to know. Our pets really need to be understood to.
My Mimi will lay on or as near to me as possible. However, she has this built in clock that rouses her up at 10:00 pm and she will bite at the carpet or paw at the basement door until I put her in her room where she gets a treat before bed. I so want her to sleep with me all night but she will knock things off my nightstand, bat at the wreath I have above my bed or bite the carpet until I put her in her room out of pure frustration. I have tried giving her a treat and leaving her out of her room but that doesn’t change a thing. 😞
My daughter’s two cats are currently staying with me until she moves. Chunk loves to sleep facing my face and will lick my hand. She is a sweetie. Bella will take her place when she gets down to eat or go in the litter box. I never push either one out of that spot – I love them both!
Me n hubby have 7 cats, 4 adults n 3 – 6 months old each. Omgoodness, we move, they move. They know what time we go to bed. They in the bed when we go in the room. If I fall asleep on the couch, at least 3 of which ever cats sleep with me. The other 4 sleep with hubby. We absolutely love the cuddles with our fur babies. We have 2 that snor, 1 who constantly passes gas , only when sleeping with us(gross) …lolol they are a joy to have and are very loving.